Dancing in the Moonlight
Every now and then a new love interest comes along that leaves us wanting to dance our way into the moonlight. It is a rare occurrence but when it does happen it leaves us with such a feeling that nothing quite comes close to repeating the feeling. In fact some people find the start of a relationship the best time of their life. And given that want to try to recreate this feeling over and over with different people. They don't have long relationships, and as soon as they go stale they move on.
Life for these people is about excitement. And where they can get their next fix from. It seems only fair that they are able to work hard during the day and play hard at night. And this is what they generally do, they play so hard in fact that life becomes about the days that they are not working.
When these new love interests come along you have to make the most of it. They are so infrequent that it is only right that you really do make the best of the situation. Living for these is one way of doing it. But you cannot live your life just for these moments because you will end up unhappy when they do not occur and because they are so infrequent you will be unhappy for the majority of the time.
Think about how happy you can be during a relationship as well. You are able to share your life with someone and be part of everything that is good about the both of you. These times may not be as exhilarating as those that you get at the beginning of the day but it should be more rewarding in the long run. And at least you can continue to enjoy something that is stable and rewarding. It is constant.
The dancing in the moonlight feeling is something we can probably only hope to achieve a few times in our whole life and when it happens it is great. But at the same time it is of finite existence and it burns out quickly. So look towards the more stable and long term happiness you can get and don't throw away a good thing once you get it. It is not worth the few months of anxiety and self doubts it will cause. Believe in yourself but also your partner.
Life for these people is about excitement. And where they can get their next fix from. It seems only fair that they are able to work hard during the day and play hard at night. And this is what they generally do, they play so hard in fact that life becomes about the days that they are not working.
When these new love interests come along you have to make the most of it. They are so infrequent that it is only right that you really do make the best of the situation. Living for these is one way of doing it. But you cannot live your life just for these moments because you will end up unhappy when they do not occur and because they are so infrequent you will be unhappy for the majority of the time.
Think about how happy you can be during a relationship as well. You are able to share your life with someone and be part of everything that is good about the both of you. These times may not be as exhilarating as those that you get at the beginning of the day but it should be more rewarding in the long run. And at least you can continue to enjoy something that is stable and rewarding. It is constant.
The dancing in the moonlight feeling is something we can probably only hope to achieve a few times in our whole life and when it happens it is great. But at the same time it is of finite existence and it burns out quickly. So look towards the more stable and long term happiness you can get and don't throw away a good thing once you get it. It is not worth the few months of anxiety and self doubts it will cause. Believe in yourself but also your partner.
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