Most of the experts will tell you that it's never too late to work on saving a relationship. Well I am just a little different. I tell you to look at what you did and then make an honest decision on what you think is right. Do you even deserve to still be in the relationship?

There is no since trying to save a relationship if you are going to make the same mistakes. If you're not willing to change then it may be time to move on and get on with your life. If you want to get your ex back then you can't just talk the talk but you need to be willing to walk the walk. That may include admitting to your mistakes and getting help for them.

Saving a relationship just isn't going to work if you start blaming others. If there is fault in others then that their problem to deal with. All you can do is work on what you need to fix. If the issues on the other end are too prominent as well then you may want to take a second look at even trying to get your ex back.
Another thing in saving a relationship is how much time you already have into it. It's not real easy to just walk away from a long term relationship. If you have been in it for a long time then no matter what happened there still has to be some love there. No one should have to go through a broken heart but you really do need to weigh the pros and cons and see exactly where you want to be.

It's really quite simple. It's great to think about saving a relationship. However at the end of the day you need to sit back and take a long hard at what got you to this point and what you are willing to do. At this point it's about you and no one else. Getting your ex back can't move forward if you are not willing to make the right decisions.