Splitting up is an unbelievably unhappy experience, particularly if there was a time when you and your wife had a close bond. Studies show that losing a relationship can create the same type of grief as when a loved one dies. The pain is completely consuming. How many more sleepless nights can you take? Maybe you're wondering, how can I win my wife back? If you want to mend your broken relationship but feel powerless to change things, then you must learn exactly what to do and what not to do in order to increase your odds of a successful reunion.

You must end everything you're doing that could be interpreted as pushy or "clingy" behavior. Desperate behavior includes begging/pleading, non-stop phone calls, emails, you know... pretty pathetic stuff. When you push someone, the natural human instinct is to withdraw even more.

Try working with human nature for a change. Give her plenty of space. Absolutely no contact for a couple weeks, maybe a month or more.

After a while she will notice you're no longer acting desperate. This causes her to start being pulled towards you. Why? Because just like it's human nature to pull back if you feel forced, the opposite is also true... a person tends to be drawn towards somebody they think is not entirely available.

During this time period of giving her space, make sure to involve yourself in lots of positive activities. Start working on those personal goals you've been putting off, do things that make you happy and improve your life. Your ex will see the positive changes. If you're wondering how to win your wife back, this is the way. Your new independence along with your attitude of detachment will cause her to be instinctively drawn toward you. Now, instead of you being the one chasing, you're both equals... and you can begin to work on the bigger issues that need healing.