All divorces are difficult and painful, for not only the couple but also everyone related to them. Some say that the children in the family are the most affected by a divorce. While this is true, it is not to s ay that the couple going through the divorce have a very good experience. The most complicated aspect of divorce is that one not only needs to wean way from another at a personal and psychological level, they also need to change several material aspects like finances, properties, etc.

Many people feel cheated in a divorce, and this is mainly because the other party pays attention to all aspects of the divorce, and they do not - therefore creating a scenario where the other party takes a lion's share of the assets that the two had as a couple and a family. The increasing bitter divorce settlements have made it necessary for anyone remotely thinking of a divorce to consider all aspects that stand to lose in come divorce settlement day, and here are the three most important of them.

The finances are the first aspect that the divorce lawyers would go into, because it is a bit complicated. These finances comprise of the liquid amount that the two had as a couple, like bank balances, stocks, and other assets that can the couple can quickly turn into liquidity. In some cases, the finances may even cover any guaranteed monies that the couple will be getting later on some investment that they have made together.

The other important aspect that one should consider in a divorce is the real estate and other assets that the couple own together. This can be apartments, real estate, vehicles, jewellery, artefacts, and almost anything that would fetch money if they went onto the market. Make sure to make a list of this, and attach proof that the couple indeed owns all this, as this will also help to decide whether any of the affected parties should get alimony or not. Some couples might settle for a one time alimony, so that they get the bulk of the money at one go, and they can invest it further for their and their children's future.

However, the most important aspect of a divorce is the custody of the children, and the visiting rights of the parents. This might be the bitterest aspect of all, and there have been cases where divorce cases do not meet their end because the couple cannot come on a normal understanding about the custody of children. There are various rules and regulations related to custody of children in a divorce battle, and some lawmakers do prefer that the child stay with the mother till a particular amount of time, before the final custody is given over to the father. The father may or may not have visiting rights over the children.

These are the three most important aspects of a divorce settlement, and an experienced, well versed divorce attorney will be able to get a favourable judgement in these aspects quite easily.