Finding Love - Looking For Your Perfect Partner?
Have you found that the more you look for love, the more it eludes you? Here are a few rules and tips to bear in mind when looking for your perfect partner: Don't appear desperate There is nothing more off-putting than someone who appears needy and too accessible.
If you meet someone you like and you are already talking marriage and babies by the second date, you are going to have them running for the hills.
Take it slow and act with dignity; don't stalk them and let things run naturally.
Don't try and hurry things along because you are frightened that if you don't pin them down, they'll run off.
If they like you enough, they won't.
And if they don't like you enough then the relationship wouldn't have worked out anyway.
Say yes! If you want to find that special person, you have to allow yourself to be put in situations you may not find comfortable; you'll need to start going out more and spreading those social wings.
Start joining clubs or doing activities that you enjoy but have always put off, citing lack of time as an excuse.
There must be a million and one things that you have 'been meaning to do' for years.
Well - now's your chance.
You'll not only open up a thousand more chances of finding love, but you'll also meet like-minded people.
Get your friends involved Now you have to get organised; send an email out to all your mates and suggest a big dinner party.
The rules are: Each friend has to bring a member of the opposite sex that no one else knows.
These dinners are always really fun and can really expand your opportunities to find that perfect partner.
Choose your partner when you are happy You mustn't panic that you 'are never going to find love'.
The more you do this, the more you will be lead to making bad choices.
Also, never cancel your mates to see a new potential boyfriend or girlfriend; you'll appear too keen if you say yes to seeing them on their terms.
If they ask you out on a Saturday - never say yes; you'll look like you have nothing better to do.
And even if this is the case, you don't want them to think that! There are plenty of other tips to finding true love [http://www.
live-better.
co.
uk/relationships]
If you meet someone you like and you are already talking marriage and babies by the second date, you are going to have them running for the hills.
Take it slow and act with dignity; don't stalk them and let things run naturally.
Don't try and hurry things along because you are frightened that if you don't pin them down, they'll run off.
If they like you enough, they won't.
And if they don't like you enough then the relationship wouldn't have worked out anyway.
Say yes! If you want to find that special person, you have to allow yourself to be put in situations you may not find comfortable; you'll need to start going out more and spreading those social wings.
Start joining clubs or doing activities that you enjoy but have always put off, citing lack of time as an excuse.
There must be a million and one things that you have 'been meaning to do' for years.
Well - now's your chance.
You'll not only open up a thousand more chances of finding love, but you'll also meet like-minded people.
Get your friends involved Now you have to get organised; send an email out to all your mates and suggest a big dinner party.
The rules are: Each friend has to bring a member of the opposite sex that no one else knows.
These dinners are always really fun and can really expand your opportunities to find that perfect partner.
Choose your partner when you are happy You mustn't panic that you 'are never going to find love'.
The more you do this, the more you will be lead to making bad choices.
Also, never cancel your mates to see a new potential boyfriend or girlfriend; you'll appear too keen if you say yes to seeing them on their terms.
If they ask you out on a Saturday - never say yes; you'll look like you have nothing better to do.
And even if this is the case, you don't want them to think that! There are plenty of other tips to finding true love [http://www.
live-better.
co.
uk/relationships]
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