What makes women tick? Some guys seem to be natural "pleasure givers, they don't have to try too hard to make a woman orgasm.
They look like they almost "feel" what to do - so effortless.
But then there's the rest of us who couldn't give a woman an orgasm even if our lives depended on it.
The question is, if we knew what made women tick, could "even" we apply that to become the pleasure giving guy? Speaking from personal experience - yes you can! I have done this, and you too can do this.
You can transform yourself into "the guy".
1 - Understand what she wants: This is a terribly overlooked thing.
Most men know that sex has a very strong emotional and psychological element for women, thus they really have to "get in the mood" to have an orgasm; but what they don't know is that not all women are the same.
The "slow love songs plus dim lights" scene, while a good one; might not be what makes your woman tick.
So, if it hasn't worked, try another setting.
I personally know of a good number of girls who go absolutely crazy for a "quickie in the kitchen" atmosphere.
Not every woman is the same - find out what yours wants! 2 - Physical concerns: While sex has a very strong psychological element, it has a very strong physical element in women too.
Basically, the first thing you have to keep in mind is to make sure that you don't thrust too fast and you put your whole penis into your woman's vagina.
This is an absolute must-do because all women have the proven instinct of wanting to "be completely filled by their man".
So you're doing a terrible mistake if you don't go all the way in during sex.
The more you fill her, the better she feels - do not forget this!