Do you know what will make him chase you? Have you set your eye on that certain someone? Do you want to know what moves you need to make now? Why do men like a challenge? This article will teach you how you can make a man chase after you and answer these other, very important, questions.
The first thing you must understand about men is, they like a challenge.
While most men are shy and have a hard time approaching women, if, when they do, she comes around too easy, they think that there is something wrong.
You want to be approachable and easy to get a long with so he knows he has a chance with you.
You also want to hesitate to go towards more than friendship.
Let him gently coax you in that direction for a while.
This will make him get to know you and feel as though he has won you.
It will also give you a great chance to get to know him.
The next thing you must be sure of, once the relationship has gone a little farther, is that he calls you.
You also shouldn't answer his calls about half of the time.
You cannot be too available.
This doesn't mean you avoid his phone calls (you will feel stupid making false excuses); this means that you have enough going on in your life that you aren't waiting by your phone, available to answer it all times of the day.
Finally, to ensure that the chase keeps going and the excitement stays in your relationship, don't spend too much time with him.
If you do, you will both be board of it quickly.
When you spend too much time together, you stop appreciating one another.
Meeting once a week, to start with will keep you both eager for your next date.
When things really get going, try meeting twice a week.
Men like the chase because it excites them.
He likes to feel like you are a difficult prize to win and that he is the only one who can capture you.
If you fall too easy, he will feel like maybe it is nothing special; maybe you were desperate for love and took the first thing that came along.
This thought is enough to turn anyone off.
If you make him chase you, you show him that you are valuable and strong.
Think of it as a game.
This doesn't mean that you are cruel about it.
You shouldn't lead on anyone you are not genuinely interested in.
The chase can be challenging and fun for both of you.
If you are the type that falls easy, the chase can rebuild your confidence and make you feel more powerful in the relationship.
If it is done right, it will boost his confidence as well.
Follow the three tips above and you will no doubt make him chase you, and have fun doing it.