Have you been trying to get that man of yours to make a commitment to you? Is he shrugging you off and you're becoming increasingly frustrated by the whole thing? Are you starting to consider the possibility of giving him that ultimate ultimatum because you don't know what to do anymore? Take a deep breath and calm down before you do anything.
Read this article and see a more effective way to get his commitment without the threats and frustration.
Look at it from his perspective.
Most men will fear commitment due to the change it will make in their life.
While you're probably thinking that you'll bring joy and happiness to his life, he's seeing all the things you're likely to prohibit him from doing.
Every man knows of at least one guy who can no longer go out with his buddies, can't watch a game on Sunday, can't play softball on Tuesdays or can't even have his buddies over for a beer once in a while.
Too many women decide to take over and lay their heavy foot down.
Show your man that you respect who he is and what makes him happy.
Every man knows he'll have to give up a bit of his previous life when he hooks up with a woman, but they don't want to have to give up so much that they barely recognize themselves.
When he sees that you make him happy, that you have a life of your own, that you won't be a clingy little wife who can't let him out of her sight, that you love him enough to see him happy with the things he enjoys (even if you find it silly or juvenile), he'll see that he can have a wonderful life with you.
And that's what every man ultimately wants.
To be happy, to be fulfilled, to love and admire you all while being loved and admired in return.
Don't crowd him with your insecurities (which is what you're doing when you tell him not to have fun with his friends) and let him have some breathing space.
With all this positive energy surrounding you both, he'll feel more comfortable with the idea of committing to you.