Have you tried talking it out with your friends, but you still don't know what men want in a relationship? Are you spending your time with guys giving and giving only to realize you're not giving what they want? Is it frustrating to try to figure men out when they're so hush hush about it? It's rare that they come straight out and tell a woman what men want in a relationship so we're left to try to decipher it all out on our own.
This article was designed to give you a heads up on what they're really thinking and show you what men really want.
Less is More Being the nurturing creatures that we can sometimes be, women will go out of their way to make life easy for a guy they like.
They're agreeable and never argue.
They're available to see him whenever he calls.
They volunteer to run errands to help the guy out.
Overall, they are sweet to the point of literally giving the guy a headache.
Too much of a good thing is never a good thing.
Sure, one of the things most men want in a relationship is a nice girl who isn't always arguing with him, but if she's too wishy-washy, if she's always there for him whenever he calls and if she tries too hard, this all translates into one thing, and it is the one thing men definitely don't want.
Desperation.
This can kill a relationship before it even has a chance to get off the ground.
A Little Independence The best way to ensure you show him your degree of independence is by clinging to your own life.
So many women overlook this very important aspect of a relationship.
For some reason, we automatically assume that a part of what men want in a relationship is to constantly be with the new woman they've met.
Wrong.
Yes, they want to be with her and get to know her more, but if she has nothing going on in her own life, he'll quickly become aware of that and will be completely turn-off.
This is because she'll likely become dependent on him for too much and he can already feel the weight of that pressure on his shoulders.
Pressure is Never a Good Thing Whether you want to spend more time with him, or you want your relationship to blossom faster, or you want him to show more affection towards you, pressuring a guy is rarely a good idea.
What men want in a relationship is to have fun as they get to know a girl.
Pressure is not fun, no matter how you try to wrap it up.
Instead of pushing to have more and trying to forcibly bring him where you want him to be, gently and slowly entice him to get there.
A man is far more apt to fall in love with a girl who draws him in than the girl who hits him over the head with her demands.
Be fun, leave the desperation at home and you'll be on a sure path to giving men what they want from a relationship.