Does it seem like your ex is doing their best to avoid you when all you want is to sit down and have a causal discussion about your relationship? If you ever hope to get them back in your life first you need to get them to talk to you again; which is why you may want to read up on the four tricks to get my ex to talk to me again.
Believe it or not there are ways to get them to talk to you without losing your dignity in the first! Stop trying to talk to them Your ex can afford to stop talking to you if you give them the luxury of comfort that you will always be around when they feel like talking.
However, if you disappear and stop trying they are going to wonder where you disappeared to and ironically now that you are not around actually start to miss you.
Create something to talk about Once they start to notice your absence they are likely going to become curious about what you have been up to or if you have replaced them.
When they finally call to check up on you make sure that you have continued to be active enough to have something to say.
Since you have turned the tables for once you have control so make good use of it! Leave slow and steady messages While you want to lie low, if your ex does not take the bait you will have to call which is still OK since they may now be curious enough to pick up.
However, if you still have to leave a message make sure you speak slow and steady.
An unemotional voice will make you sound stable and secure which will increase the chances of your ex returning your call.
Flirt around some Finally, if you really want to make them jealous and give them a reason to call go ahead and flirt casually.
After all, you are technically single and once they hear through the grapevine you are moving on it might be just enough to nudge them forward as they realize it's now or never if they want you back!