Relationships are based on love and trust and if either of the party fails on one of these grounds, there is a breakup.
All relationships have its own unique ups and downs but when there is a break up then at least for one of the partners it seems to be the end of the world.
Breakups can lead to long term depression, suicidal attempts etc.
Read on to find out whether you really need to patch up.
•Analyze the situation as to why the breakup happened in the first place and also decide whether you really need him or her back in your life.
•If the situation occurred due to infidelity then think about the chances of the same not happening again if you were to get back together again.
•If communication was a problem then chances are that if both partners do not drastically change themselves the same problem is bound to crop up again.
•Improve yourself on whatever it is you thing that you lack as it is very important for all of us to fine tune our strengths and to overcome our weaknesses to be more appealing either at the work front or as far as relationships are concerned.
Through this activity an individual gains self respect and confidence which will help him to take a better decision as far as getting back together is concerned.
•Do not communicate for sometime after your breakup so that both parties get some breather space.
During this time it may happen that your partner may miss you while remembering all the good times that you may have spent.
Make use of this time and try to live a normal life, mingle with friends but if you still cannot forget your partner then you must try every possible way to get him or her back.
If you are lonely for just any partner then getting back is a bad idea.
•If the breakup has had severe psychological affects it is advisable to consult a psychiatrist before getting back together since if the same is repeated then it may prove to be deadly for the person concerned.