Your Ex Boyfriend - Before You Let The Man You Love Get Away For Good - Do This Fast
It happened to some of your friends, but you never thought your boyfriend would breakup with you. However he has just told you that he thinks he needs a time out from your relationship. When it happened to your girlfriends, you saw how hurt they were, but you never thought it was this bad. The worse part is thinking the man you love has gone away for good.
All of the hopes and plans you made for a future with your man seem to have disappeared with him. You can see yourself being an old maid because you know that no other man can ever take his place. Your emotions are a mess and you have sent a hundred or more text messages to him and called day and night, yet he won't communicate with you.
It is natural to feel that something you did or said drove the man you love away, and that makes you feel even worse. However that might not be true at all. Men leave their girlfriends for many different reasons, yet it is seldom any single thing that drove him away. There can be things beyond your control such as feeling he isn't ready to settle down and make a commitment. But if you act fast, you can bring him running back.
By acting fast, I don't mean that you should chase him down and tell him you can't live without him. You can't force him to love you by begging and crying. The fast action you need to take is to stop chasing him and give him time to think and begin to miss you. If you ignore your ex boyfriend it will have much more of an impact than trying to get your ex back.
The reason ignoring your ex works so well is because it takes him by surprise. You remember how surprised you were when he broke up with you? Well, ignoring an ex boyfriend has practically the same effect on him. If he is still in love with you, he will think you may have given up on him and found somebody new. This will hurt his pride and make him regret the breakup.
Now, he will be more than ready to talk to you and he will call you. This is when you make him love you and want to be with you for good. However, you can't cry or beg. If you think you are not ready to hear his voice without crying, you shouldn't take his call. Wait until you feel strong and call him back because what you are going to say needs to be said without crying.
The breakup might not be your fault, but you are going to apologize to your ex. Saying you are sorry usually disarms the other person and makes them say, "It was my fault." That is what is likely to happen when you apologize to him. Your ex boyfriend will say that he is to blame for the breakup. This can lead to both of you seeing how foolish the breakup was and bring you back together for good.
All of the hopes and plans you made for a future with your man seem to have disappeared with him. You can see yourself being an old maid because you know that no other man can ever take his place. Your emotions are a mess and you have sent a hundred or more text messages to him and called day and night, yet he won't communicate with you.
It is natural to feel that something you did or said drove the man you love away, and that makes you feel even worse. However that might not be true at all. Men leave their girlfriends for many different reasons, yet it is seldom any single thing that drove him away. There can be things beyond your control such as feeling he isn't ready to settle down and make a commitment. But if you act fast, you can bring him running back.
By acting fast, I don't mean that you should chase him down and tell him you can't live without him. You can't force him to love you by begging and crying. The fast action you need to take is to stop chasing him and give him time to think and begin to miss you. If you ignore your ex boyfriend it will have much more of an impact than trying to get your ex back.
The reason ignoring your ex works so well is because it takes him by surprise. You remember how surprised you were when he broke up with you? Well, ignoring an ex boyfriend has practically the same effect on him. If he is still in love with you, he will think you may have given up on him and found somebody new. This will hurt his pride and make him regret the breakup.
Now, he will be more than ready to talk to you and he will call you. This is when you make him love you and want to be with you for good. However, you can't cry or beg. If you think you are not ready to hear his voice without crying, you shouldn't take his call. Wait until you feel strong and call him back because what you are going to say needs to be said without crying.
The breakup might not be your fault, but you are going to apologize to your ex. Saying you are sorry usually disarms the other person and makes them say, "It was my fault." That is what is likely to happen when you apologize to him. Your ex boyfriend will say that he is to blame for the breakup. This can lead to both of you seeing how foolish the breakup was and bring you back together for good.
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