Ways to Get Your Ex Back - For Slobs
Are you wondering how to get back with your Ex when they called you a slob? If you were talking about moving in together, but instead your Ex broke it off, because your apartment was messy or dirty or a pigsty? Can you get the magic back between you? Don't panic: Get a plan! Fact Check: OK now really take a look at yourself, and your living situation.
Is your Ex correct and you could use some help.
Is your apartment a bit messy? Do you need a haircut? Make a list of the things that you need to work on.
Really look objectively at you and your life.
It sounds like your Ex would like to be with you, but the mess is what is driving you apart.
Be honest too- maybe it is a bit of work to keep up with the housekeeping but it is worth it to get back together, right? It is hard to hear about our faults, but hey I would rather hear about it from someone who loves me, than from another source- If this is really the only think keeping you too apart- then it is time to make some changes! Take Action: What can you do to take action on this list of yours? Can you hire a cleaning service or schedule a time each week to do your own cleaning? What about laundry? Can you plan a certain time to do it, or take it somewhere? Now look at yourself- eeks! I know the hard part.
But seriously- plan to get a haircut each month and take a bit more time when you dress- even if you don't have "plans" that day.
Get creative, use the list you made and really see what changes you can make in your life.
Soon all these changes will start to become habits that you will look forward to.
You might find you have more confidence at work or there could be other positive benefits.
Connect: Once you have made some changes, you can work on getting your Ex back.
Write a letter telling your Ex about the changes you have made to your apartment and yourself.
Handwritten letters work like magic to get back your Ex.
You could even send a photo of the apartment and yourself to show your Ex in your letter.
Your Ex will be surprise to hear from you, and will appreciate all the hard work and effort that you have gone through.
Now that you are talking again, you can slowly start to work on getting back together.
This could take some time to get back to where you were, but now that your Love sees how much effort you are putting towards yourself and the relationship, it will deepen what you have.
Is your Ex correct and you could use some help.
Is your apartment a bit messy? Do you need a haircut? Make a list of the things that you need to work on.
Really look objectively at you and your life.
It sounds like your Ex would like to be with you, but the mess is what is driving you apart.
Be honest too- maybe it is a bit of work to keep up with the housekeeping but it is worth it to get back together, right? It is hard to hear about our faults, but hey I would rather hear about it from someone who loves me, than from another source- If this is really the only think keeping you too apart- then it is time to make some changes! Take Action: What can you do to take action on this list of yours? Can you hire a cleaning service or schedule a time each week to do your own cleaning? What about laundry? Can you plan a certain time to do it, or take it somewhere? Now look at yourself- eeks! I know the hard part.
But seriously- plan to get a haircut each month and take a bit more time when you dress- even if you don't have "plans" that day.
Get creative, use the list you made and really see what changes you can make in your life.
Soon all these changes will start to become habits that you will look forward to.
You might find you have more confidence at work or there could be other positive benefits.
Connect: Once you have made some changes, you can work on getting your Ex back.
Write a letter telling your Ex about the changes you have made to your apartment and yourself.
Handwritten letters work like magic to get back your Ex.
You could even send a photo of the apartment and yourself to show your Ex in your letter.
Your Ex will be surprise to hear from you, and will appreciate all the hard work and effort that you have gone through.
Now that you are talking again, you can slowly start to work on getting back together.
This could take some time to get back to where you were, but now that your Love sees how much effort you are putting towards yourself and the relationship, it will deepen what you have.
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