Do you feel like you just can't make a guy fall in love? Can you feel the spark but can't quite light the fire? Do you think maybe your relationship is already stuck in a rut? Maybe you just haven't added all of the ingredients to round out and complete your relationship so that it can grow.
Listen and learn.
If you can't make a guy fall in love with you, then just get a dozen cats now because there's no point in even playing the game.
First, know what makes the male animal tick.
Some things are predetermined by nature and haven't changed since the beginning of time.
Men want women; women want love.
You've surely realized by now that men are not initially attracted by your brain, or even by your sweetness.
Beauty and hot legs catch his eye, but even those are not the sweet spot that is the object of his desire.
You could be a double amputee with the face of a barn owl and still have what it takes to attract a man.
But if you want to do more than service his needs, you are going to have to take that initial attraction and parlay it into a deep and abiding love.
You have to make a guy fall in love with you.
Men don't fall in love the same way or for the same reasons that women do.
Giving love is your first goal, and being loved is your second goal.
You've won half the battle when you fall for him.
His goal is not love; his goal is you.
That's just nature.
You are about quality.
You need to find good genes and a good provider to raise and nurture a family.
He is about quantity.
The more seeds he can sow, the better chance there is that one or more of his offspring will survive in the jungle.
His first goal is you, but his second goal is the next woman in line.
The advent of civilization gives men a chance to be loving and nurturing too.
Cavemen can be tamed and domesticated.
But it can't be done with sex alone.
You have to become a friend and a life partner.
You have to share the experiences of life together.
He has to come to need you and to depend on you.
Relationships have a better chance of lasting if they are built on a solid foundation of friendship, emotion, and interdependence.
The hard work has to come before the fun.
Relationships in which there is too much sex too soon stand a good chance of fading away or falling apart.
You may have discovered that sex in a loving relationship is infinitely more satisfying than casual sex.
Once you have built that solid foundation, that is when the man will discover love-even though he was never really looking for it.
If you can be enough of a friend, then your love will find that man, and you will see that you can make a guy fall in love with you.