How many days has it been since you and your boyfriend broke up? If you still love him, the answer is simple. It's been too long. Each moment that passes truly does feel like an eternity when you're no longer with the one man you adore. Perhaps you've already tried the old tricks of attempting to make him jealous to win back his love or pretending to have a crisis so he'll bolt back to your side. These may seem like great ideas, but they're obviously not effective. Getting him back isn't as challenging as you think it is. You can seduce your ex boyfriend back by following a few simple, yet highly effective, tips. The man can be yours again if you temper your emotions and get to work showing him exactly what he's missing in you.

In order to seduce your ex boyfriend back you have to show him that you're not only the perfect woman for him but that you're emotionally stable and self confident. It's very hard to remain confident in who you are after you've been dumped by someone you really care for. You'll feel less like a woman and you'll wonder why he can't love you the way you still love him. If you show him any of that self doubt, he's not going to feel a strong attraction to you again. You must remain calm when you speak with or see him. You have to exude happiness and you need to show him that with or without him you can make it and be satisfied and fulfilled.

Creating some distance with an ex is always a powerful way to regain his interest because you're letting your actions speak for you. If you stop chasing after him like a lovesick school girl, he'll begin to doubt your lingering feelings for him. You want that to happen because it bruises his ego. He'll feel less desirable and he'll suspect that you may have met someone new. Even when a man dumps his girlfriend he's impacted when she starts seeing a new man. By avoiding him for a few weeks you are sending out the silent, yet striking, message that you've moved on and have gotten over him.

Who says you should sit at home and endlessly mourn the man you lost? You'll stand a much better chance of getting your ex back if you get out and enjoy life again. No man wants to be with a woman who can't pull herself out of desperation over a break up. If you get yourself together, plan some outings with friends and then meet new people, your ex boyfriend will get wind of it. People love to gossip and mutual friends will have no problem rushing to your ex and telling him that you're out and about attracting all kinds of male attention.

If your ex boyfriend feels that you've jumped back into single life, that's a very powerful and effective way to seduce him back. Continue to be friendly to him, don't bring up the break up and wish him well at every opportunity that presents itself. By doing that, you'll be showing him that you're fine pursuing a new life that doesn't include him and that will be motivation enough in his mind to want you back.