The Marriage Cancer
A couple got married some years ago; it was a glorious wedding that led to a blissful marriage.
The marriage was tagged 'heaven on earth' before the marriage cancer called criticism began to manifest.
The wife cultivated a habit of criticizing her husband on everything, she seems to know everything.
I wasn't surprise when I learnt that their marriage had led to a break up.
Please permit me to tell you this; you can't fix your spouse, you can't do it in any way.
Criticism will make your spouse to become worst in character and attitude as he or she will suffer low self-esteem.
If you are fond criticizing, scolding, giving unsolicited advice, correct openly, then you are on your way to a flamboyant marital failure.
All spouse who are fond of criticizing, tend to be a "tutorial master" in the family, while their mates are expected to be the student and must listen to them at all cost, whether it is convenient or not.
As a critic, you'll end up becoming the number one enemy of your marriage.
Criticism will make your marriage critical and will make your home difficult.
You can't change people's attitude or habit by criticizing them you will end up hurting their feelings.
Such a person would build a wall of defense thereby avoiding you.
Apparently, such individual will start to enjoy the company of other people, especially people of opposite gender who appears to respect their opinion.
There will be an aggravation of low self-esteem in such spouse.
Through criticism, many have pushed their spouses to strange men and women unknowingly.
Avoid focusing on the mistakes of your spouse; avoid the arrogant spirit of "good-me-bad-you" and "I know it all" mindset.
In fact, critical spirit is a bad spirit that you must destroy; you must not allow it to have dominion over you, lest it destroys your life and marriage.
Cultivate the habit of appreciating your spouse.
This will bring out the best in him or her; commend your spouse for what he or she is doing.
This will definitely motivate your spouse for greater performance in the home.
If there is anything to correct at all, never correct him or her as a school teacher will do, correct in love.
Stop correcting an as an authority, it is a sign of immaturity.
Remember the person you marry is your master; so correct with love and respect.
Please note, if you know that you are qualify to correct your spouse, and then be prepared to be corrected too.
Most spouses who criticizes hates to be corrected and does not enjoy been subjected to criticism.
The root cause of a criticizing heart is pride, arrogant and a perfectionist spirit.
Never force your idea on your spouse; avoid been judgmental, listen attentively to your spouse, humble yourself for it is a sign of maturity.
The marriage was tagged 'heaven on earth' before the marriage cancer called criticism began to manifest.
The wife cultivated a habit of criticizing her husband on everything, she seems to know everything.
I wasn't surprise when I learnt that their marriage had led to a break up.
Please permit me to tell you this; you can't fix your spouse, you can't do it in any way.
Criticism will make your spouse to become worst in character and attitude as he or she will suffer low self-esteem.
If you are fond criticizing, scolding, giving unsolicited advice, correct openly, then you are on your way to a flamboyant marital failure.
All spouse who are fond of criticizing, tend to be a "tutorial master" in the family, while their mates are expected to be the student and must listen to them at all cost, whether it is convenient or not.
As a critic, you'll end up becoming the number one enemy of your marriage.
Criticism will make your marriage critical and will make your home difficult.
You can't change people's attitude or habit by criticizing them you will end up hurting their feelings.
Such a person would build a wall of defense thereby avoiding you.
Apparently, such individual will start to enjoy the company of other people, especially people of opposite gender who appears to respect their opinion.
There will be an aggravation of low self-esteem in such spouse.
Through criticism, many have pushed their spouses to strange men and women unknowingly.
Avoid focusing on the mistakes of your spouse; avoid the arrogant spirit of "good-me-bad-you" and "I know it all" mindset.
In fact, critical spirit is a bad spirit that you must destroy; you must not allow it to have dominion over you, lest it destroys your life and marriage.
Cultivate the habit of appreciating your spouse.
This will bring out the best in him or her; commend your spouse for what he or she is doing.
This will definitely motivate your spouse for greater performance in the home.
If there is anything to correct at all, never correct him or her as a school teacher will do, correct in love.
Stop correcting an as an authority, it is a sign of immaturity.
Remember the person you marry is your master; so correct with love and respect.
Please note, if you know that you are qualify to correct your spouse, and then be prepared to be corrected too.
Most spouses who criticizes hates to be corrected and does not enjoy been subjected to criticism.
The root cause of a criticizing heart is pride, arrogant and a perfectionist spirit.
Never force your idea on your spouse; avoid been judgmental, listen attentively to your spouse, humble yourself for it is a sign of maturity.
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