Confidence is vital if you are courting, dating or seducing women. Women seem to tie self confidence with "ability" to succeed in business. Many men also believe that women see that when they are successful just because they make lots of money and that is just not true. or is it?

As usually women actually looks for successful men just because they think they are satisfied due to their success. So what have that got to do with anything. Well, women seem to know that if the men are successful, they are less likely to "stray" outside to satisfied themselves and are more stable.

So in a relationship, that's mean that they are less likely to cheat or keep changing jobs and get into compromising positions. Women wants to look for a partner as well as a lover. They want to have a partner for companionship, decision making, and finances, as well as in the bedroom. Women wants to feel as equal and not to be "seconded" so make her feel as though you're both equals, that is part of the seduction.

When it comes to self confidence, there are basically 2 type - those that have it and those who don't have it. Everyone can have the potential to be self confidence or "motivated" if that's how you like to look at it that way.

If you are a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you think is a positive traits that you have, then your chances are good. Not all women are looking for a CEO or Brain Surgeon. They want someone who is confident and knows what he wants and is confident with who he is and what he has to offer in a relationship with them.
So take heart!