If you want to get your ex boyfriend to return after the break up, what's the best approach? Some women will tell you that you need to cry so you appeal to his sympathetic side.
Others swear that the best way to get a man back is to date someone else so he'll get jealous and realize what he's missing.
Another school of advice suggests that you should talk to his family or friends and get them working with you to convince him that he's made a big mistake.
If anyone has suggested any of these tactics, don't do them.
They won't work and in fact they may actually make your boyfriend leave your life forever.
If you are still in love with him you can get your ex boyfriend to return by doing just a few simple things.
The first thing that you must do is control your emotions.
This means that any crying you feel the need to do must be done in private.
If you're not alone, don't cry.
Don't tell any mutual friends of yours and his that you are heartbroken.
You do not want your ex to get the slightest inkling that you're anything but strong and calm.
If you happen to run into him greet him with a smile, keep the conversation generic and short and wish him well.
Be the first to walk away when you do talk to him and never bring up the break up.
Another important step if you want to get your ex boyfriend to return is to improve who you are.
Think back to the woman you were when you two first met.
There were qualities that drew him to you.
He enjoyed certain things about you and maybe you let those things fade into the background as you settled into the relationship.
Recreate yourself from head-to-toe, inside and out.
Become the best version of you that you possibly can.
You want to wow him and you want to remind him of why he fell in love with you in the first place.
If you can do this, you'll have him chasing after you begging for a second chance.