A broken relationship is a tough thing for both parties.
Both the guy and the girl feel out of place, unimportant and wasted.
However, it is the man who needs to take charge and get things running.
You must not cry or go down on life if you've broken up with your girlfriend.
A break up should be taken just like any other problems in life.
We don't cry and feel depressed over all problems that come out way, do we? In fact, getting a girl back into that cuddly relationship is a cake walk.
Let me tell you how.
The first thing you should do after a break up is give space and spend some time apart.
Ignore your ex if you ever happen to come across each other on the street, at the mall or at a common friend's place.
This will definitely make her think.
Make sure you do not show your mental trauma in your dressing or your behavior.
It will only be a turn off, not just for your ex but also for a lot of other people around.
A meaner strategy you can adopt is, visiting those places where it is the most likely possible for you to bump into each other.
Ignoring her can work here too, but don't over do it.
Once you think you have done enough of ignoring and given enough space, surprise her by sending a text message or call her abruptly.
Surprise is always a good factor in any relationship, it may be on or broken.
You can ask her out one more time and explore the total possibilities of a patch up if she agrees.
There are major chances of your patch up to happen over the meeting.