I know what it is like to go through a HUGE breakup.
There are behaviors that will help to bring your ex closer to you and there are definitely behaviors that will push your ex further away.
What you need to know is that you are not alone.
You will get there even if you feel like a complete failure.
You may be beating yourself up if you've made one mistake after the next but it's time to give yourself a break.
You may feel like you are trying your best and nothing seems to work.
You're looking for a way, a ray of light, some hope.
Something that will help you make some progress with the relationship between you and your ex.
You are strong and you can respond to your breakup in a way that will surprise your ex so much so that he/she begin to wonder what happened to you.
This level of curiosity is the open door that you need to help move your ex towards you emotionally.
If you are able to move your ex emotionally, his/her behavior will follow.
But you cannot respond from your emotions.
In order to impact your ex, you must respond using strategies that work even if you do not get immediate results.
If you keep adding fuel to the fire of your ex's emotions by using tips that will really help you, you will not have to worry about continually feeling helpless.
You will be empowered to get the results you really want.