Getting your marriage back to the way it was can be the answer to the question of how to deal with a sexless marriage.
This goal can be as easy as exhausting a little time and effort; it is not like the love is gone, you just have to find a way back into her heart.
Be subtle.
You don't want to make any hasty moves that will cause your wife to leave the home temporarily or consider divorce, so just take it slow.
Think back to when the two of you first met and try and rekindle the flame inside of your marriage by becoming "Mr.
Romantic" again.
Flowers.
Send your wife flowers at work without reason to express to her that you love and care for her; roses are usually a woman's favorite but I am quite sure that you know the ones to purchase.
Cook her a beautiful meal at home.
Yes, you could very well take her to a very expensive restaurant but use your cooking skills to add that very personal touch.
She will appreciate you even more.
Start spending quality time with your wife.
I am not saying that the two of you should stick to each other like glue but do things together to initiate a good flowing conversation and spark interest within the relationship.
You can always go out and cheat but is that what you want? Will cheating on your spouse make you feel better or make the communication easier within your marriage? Physically you will be sexually relieved and back to your "normal self" whatever that is but you still have not achieved the sexual gratification from the person you wanted it from.
A fling will not make the situation any better because then you will be left to deal with two different female personalities and eventually your fling will have her own issues.
Stay committed to your wife and your marriage.
Keep in mind that it is best to deal with things straight up opposed to hiding behind the problem with a mistress, just be a man about it.
Do not run from the problem.
When you married your wife I am sure she was an extremely caring and understanding woman who listened to every word you had to say and she is still that same woman.
The woman that you love and cherish is still there so do not discount her.
If you do not talk things through with your wife, how will you ever have sex again? Make an effort to tell her exactly what things have been bothering you and why you feel that the two of you not having sex within your marriage is causing you to feel the way you do.
If the love is not lost and your wife would like to save her marriage, she is going to be all ears during this time.
Make sure to choose your words carefully because women can be very sensitive creatures when it concerns matters of the heart, especially when their role as a wife is being questioned.
Hopefully you are tackling this problem early because the longer this issue lingers, the harder it will be to make a breakthrough with your spouse.
When a person does not see the wrong in their actions, it makes it that much harder for them to breakaway from their habits.
Please do not blame your wife.
In time this will be over and you would have learned a lot from the experience.