Although breakups are not easy to handle you still have to live with the fact that you are now alone.
There are two ways that you can do this, one is by wallowing in self pity, and second is by tackling it in such a way that your ex does a rethink on it.
If you choose the latter then here is how you can reverse the breakup.
Give your ex time to reflect on A breakup should mean "Break Up" with a capital B.
There are no two ways about it and you have to treat it as such.
Just ignore the fact that your partner is no longer with you.
The moment you do this the anger and pain begin to vanish and this gives both of you time to reflect on the past.
For a change don't contest There is no point in telling your ex how wrong they are as it will not help you one bit.
On the contrary it will firm their resolve to stay away from you.
When you don't contest their decision they begin to doubt if it was the right decision.
Remain unaffected Do not show any signs that will tell your ex that you have been affected.
After all a breakup is not the worst thing that you have faced till now and it won't be the only disappointment in your life.
You are going to face far more difficult challenges as you grow old and therefore treat the breakup as a minor irritant and let it not affect you physically and emotionally.
Start meeting new people Pick up the pieces and begin to lead as normal life as you can.
If you begin meeting new people you will not think of your ex so often and this will certainly help.
Show maturity beyond your age If you happen to meet your ex then deal with him/her in a mature and dignified manner without any hint of animosity.
This mature way of dealing with the breakup will certainly make them regret the decision.
Begin dating Since you have been meeting people it is quite likely that one of them will find you attractive and approach you for a date.
Take your pick and make it known to the new person that you will not commit till you are sure of the relationship.
This fact will make your ex nervous as he/she has seen you as a mature and confident person.
They will hate the thought that one day you will be gone forever.
Show signs of moving on If by now your ex does not make any attempts to reconcile the differences then send him/her an overt signal that if you don't get a positive response you will move on.
If you have played all the above six steps right he/she will make dash and ask for a second chance.