Right now can be a very hard time...
Things are not going very well and it can really take the wind out of your sails and and make you feel really depressed.
The hardest thing about getting back together with your ex is the fact that your emotions are all over the place...
It's not often that someone can take a break up and just be happy about it, unless they really wanted to break up.
The reason why so many people have trouble getting their ex back is because your judgment is clouded...
When your emotions are running high you are not thinking and clear as you should be and this often leads to big mistakes.
Some mistakes include: Calling too often - This won't work, it just pushes your ex farther away...
You have to give them space in the beginning.
Arguing - Some people try to argue and tell their ex that breaking up is a bad idea, of course you think this, but it's not a good idea to try and force your ex back into a relationship, it's not going to work.
Crying and begging - The best thing you can do after a break up is to walk away and keep a straight face...
Try not to break down, definitely don't start begging, this makes you look very needy (not attractive).
It's going to be hard but you have to be positive, especially if your ex calls you...
Let your emotions out while your ex is not around, if they think the break up is not really effecting you that much because you are just that confident and positive then you will have a much better chance at getting them back...