Saving your marriage after an affair can be a challenge many husbands aren't interested in undertaking, especially if they're the ones who've been cheated on! Despite what's going on, you realize your wife cheated on you because she felt you were neglectful and uncaring.
You're willing to go the extra mile to make sure this never happens again, even though you're hurt, because truthfully speaking, you know your actions led to her reacting in such an ugly manner.
Here are 3 ways to show your wife that you're a loving husband who is capable of caring, loving and cherishing his wife.
These aren't an all-inclusive list, but they will give you a nice headstart on making your marriage work after an affair - yours or hers.
1.
Cater to Her Interests Every Once In a While.
Many women have interests their husbands wouldn't want an ounce of involvement in.
In order to win back your wife's affection, you'll have to suck it up and display some interest in her interests.
Talk to her about those soap operas she watches on TiVo when she gets home from work.
Rub her feet after she takes off those cute pumps she wears at the office and kiss her toes as you ask about her day.
2.
Relieve Her of Her Burdens.
Every woman daydreams of a day without responsibilities.
If your wife cooks, cleans, works part time and manages the house while you bring home the bacon, consider giving her the day off - with pay! Arrange a spa day for your wife and her mother and/or best friend.
Have someone take care of the children for the day and arrange housekeeping to handle the duties she usually does.
Give her a nice home cooked (or catered) dinner that reminds her of how special you truly feel she is.
This is something that, when done often enough (every other month or so), will have a positive impact on your relationship.
3.
Sex Her Like You Care.
Sex is one of the most intimate, emotional and romantic ways you can literally show your wife you care.
Sex is a fortifier of love between strong couples, even those who are working their way through infidelity after one spouse has had an affair with an outside party.
Make love to her the way she likes it, and make her literally feel every ounce of your love as you kiss and caress every inch of her body.
Saving your marriage after an affair with these 3 tips to show your wife you love her are again simply a great start to giving you some ground in reconnecting with your wife and returning to happily ever after.
Allow things to naturally inspire you when it comes to making her happy and if she drops any hints, by all means, please use them!