3 Keys to Being Romantic With Your Man (On Valentines or Any Other Time)
Being romantic with a man can be very challenging.
Most men know a little bit about being romantic with women, but maybe not as much as they would like to think.
And, meanwhile, a lot of guys don't really appreciate many of the traditional ways of being romantic.
Please rest assured, however, that there are ways that women can successfully break through to a man; this is true for just about any man.
You see, at the end of the day, men need to be loved and appreciated just like anyone else.
It is a part of our hard wiring, our neurology.
Some people may not feel like they need certain things, but there are parts of us of which we have little control.
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getting back to romance! Here are some ways to break through and be romantic with your man without being cheesy: Show Appreciation One thing that men need almost as much as love is appreciation.
Now this can come in many forms, but at its heart it is very primal.
Men need to be appreciated for something that they are doing or have done.
Fortunately this does not mean that you have to thank and approve of everything he does.
Obviously your experience tells you otherwise; the implications of appreciation are more subtle and far reaching than that.
When it comes to being romantic with a man it really means a lot to show him how you appreciate him.
This is because it shows him the truth of your heart, implicitly.
For example caring about what he does and what he likes is a way to show this appreciation.
Show Love This is a bit trickier than sing appreciation.
That's because a lot of guys don't like to get too lovey dovey.
But all that means is that you need to be a bit creative with some guys to show your love and not just say it.
Saying it matters, but your romance needs to affirm that love creatively.
A way to do this is to create something of sentiment for him.
That can be a gift of just about any kind.
We don't have time to get into the details of that here, but gifts are a solid way to show love.
Romance and Affection Maybe not all men love to cuddle, but in some form or another most men love to be shown affection.
We are touch activated, as I always say.
Men will respond to being cared for physically.
This does not mean only sexually for the record.
Most men know a little bit about being romantic with women, but maybe not as much as they would like to think.
And, meanwhile, a lot of guys don't really appreciate many of the traditional ways of being romantic.
Please rest assured, however, that there are ways that women can successfully break through to a man; this is true for just about any man.
You see, at the end of the day, men need to be loved and appreciated just like anyone else.
It is a part of our hard wiring, our neurology.
Some people may not feel like they need certain things, but there are parts of us of which we have little control.
...
getting back to romance! Here are some ways to break through and be romantic with your man without being cheesy: Show Appreciation One thing that men need almost as much as love is appreciation.
Now this can come in many forms, but at its heart it is very primal.
Men need to be appreciated for something that they are doing or have done.
Fortunately this does not mean that you have to thank and approve of everything he does.
Obviously your experience tells you otherwise; the implications of appreciation are more subtle and far reaching than that.
When it comes to being romantic with a man it really means a lot to show him how you appreciate him.
This is because it shows him the truth of your heart, implicitly.
For example caring about what he does and what he likes is a way to show this appreciation.
Show Love This is a bit trickier than sing appreciation.
That's because a lot of guys don't like to get too lovey dovey.
But all that means is that you need to be a bit creative with some guys to show your love and not just say it.
Saying it matters, but your romance needs to affirm that love creatively.
A way to do this is to create something of sentiment for him.
That can be a gift of just about any kind.
We don't have time to get into the details of that here, but gifts are a solid way to show love.
Romance and Affection Maybe not all men love to cuddle, but in some form or another most men love to be shown affection.
We are touch activated, as I always say.
Men will respond to being cared for physically.
This does not mean only sexually for the record.
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