Have you been eying a particular guy and you'd like to have him fall in love with you? Is love a mysterious emotion that you have no idea how to conquer or tame? Are you just looking forward to coming home to a good man every night, but the road there is long and complicated? Learn the steps you need to take to win his love.
Work to create an emotional attachment with him.
This can take a number of dates and you shouldn't worry if it doesn't happen over night.
Let him get to know you and see various sides of you.
Your time spent with him should be fun, so don't try to bog them down with too much serious talk of a future relationship with him.
Let him realize for himself the great future he can have with you.
This will be far more effective than trying to force him to see the relationship the way you do.
If he sees that his future with you can be fun, exciting and without the pressure to be something he's not, he'll allow himself to make that emotional bond with you.
Communication is going to be crucial to this process, but the things you learn from him as you talk together won't be enough.
You need to share experiences together to really get to know each other on a more profound level.
This way you'll be better able to see whether you're compatible or not.
This process will also be aided by staying out of the bedroom for a while.
You might think this should be the first step, but it should almost be the last.
Not only will this give you a chance to find out a lot about him and the type of man he is, but he'll have learned enough about you to see sex with you as more than just a hop in bed.
Falling in love one step at a time is better than trying to rush into something because you feel an urgency.
Taking it slow will be far more rewarding and he'll appreciate the time you've allowed him to realize the depth of his emotions for you.