Millions of men and women across the world are in a "my ex is contacting me again" situation and they're either annoyed or angry when they really shouldn't be.
We should be happy that someone we loved wants to get back together in our lives.
Its great because you were with that person for a reason and instead of trying to get them back, you decided to let go and move on.
Well let me first tell you that for a lot of people in this, relationships can be hard for them to start.
It can be even harder to get them to go the distance.
If you're someone who loved and lost someone and now that person wants you back, you should at least make an effort to try and make that happen.
Too many people die alone in this world leaving behind only regrets.
They die unmarried and without children to remember them for who they were and the things they did in their lives.
If dying alone isn't an option for you then you should identify whichever of the hundreds of reason why the relationship ended between the two of you and make and see if the two of you can fix them together.
We spend years and months with our partners, and during this time we create memories, build bonds and share things about ourselves with our partner that no one else in the world knows about us.
Why let go and move on when you've obviously found someone you think you could share a life with.
If you're in a "my ex is contacting me again" situation, what you need to see from your ex to get back together with them is an ability to change.
What you need to see to even consider getting back together with them is that they're are making positive steps toward change.
The type of change that was needed to save the relationship the two of you had in the first place.
The inability to change ranks up in the top ten reasons for why break ups happen.
If you ex couldn't change their attitude toward you or the relationship and that's why it ended, then that what you need to see from them now.
They need to show a type of change that shows their maturity and stability to handle the break up.
The need to be mature in the way they try and get back together with you and show you their stability to still live their lives after the break up.
You don't want them harassing and pressuring you to get back together with them.
You want to see that they can be mature and talk.
You want your ex to talk to you about the problems you both feel ended the relationship, and talk about the compromises and commitments the two of you can make to fix those problems together so that you both can get back together.
This is what to do in a "my ex is contacting me again" situation.