Making Love Work Love is an atmosphere, a state of mind. The little things you do to contribute to his tranquility can mean a lot to the growth, depth and survival of the relationship.
Bring out the best in him
Really get to know him; constantly talk to him to find out what he really likes; what he’s really thinking; what changes he’s going through;

• Be open minded and willing to give his ideas a try

• Be willing to compromise on anything

• Talk to him about the things on your mind

• Don’t be a dictator; be a companion

• Be a true friend; provide comfort, care and sensitivity

Keep your loving relationship in prospective even in the mist of kids, career, or household responsibilities; no relationship is self-sufficient; it has to be nurtured and built upon

Forget the myth that men want to be mothered, most men would rather be thought of as heroes, not helpless

Add flavor to your relationship, be creative, do something new to make him look forward to the next time the two of you are together

Explore and express your fantasies together, it will create something new for both of you and make it fun:

• Don’t nag, be accommodating and understanding

• Give space but don’t neglect

• Never criticize unless it’s constructive

• Learn some of the thing he enjoys doing when relaxing, and share in his relaxation

• Respect him, trust him and keep the lines of communication between the two of you open

• Be open about the problems in the relationship

• Do not openly criticize his family or friends

• Praise and appreciate him

• Have patience and flexibility

• Surrender possessiveness and jealousy

• Treat him the way you want to be treated

• Always establish the fact that you’re glad to see him by greeting him with affection not complaints

• Don’t always take his mood changes personally

• Don’t take him for granted

• Don’t constantly complain

• Don’t turn the relationship into a competition

• Don’t always point an accusing finger at him when problems arise; accept equal responsibility for the problems in the relationship

• Demonstrate affection often, with hugs, kisses and attentiveness

• Don’t tell all your stories to your friends, keep some personal things to your self or an expert on relationships that can help if need be.

Finally, invest in your relationship, read books, watch videos and other materials that will help you increase your knowledge on how to build strong and lasting relationship with your partner, get him involved too.

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