In every Long Distance Relationships that I observed and work with, I discovered one very important element that could either hold or break a long distance relationship.
You may think that you are ready for this kind of relationships, you may also think that you have enough material at hand to support you through the relationship or you may even have convince yourself thousand time that it will work.
Without knowing the working principle of the element that I am going to share with your in this article, you will fail.
The element is none other than your mind power.
How you think and act on what you think is very important to ensure that your long distance relationship has a happy ending.
So how must you think? 1)Positive Thinking Enough have been said of positive thinking but do really anyone think positively when facing a problem? You may tell yourself that you are willing to give two years to your partner but in actual fact, do you condition yourself to think positively for two years? For example, half way through the relationship, your partner may tell you that he/she has given up hope on the relationship due to some difficulties, what will you do? Most of us will start to blame the other party for not keeping the promise or beginning to give way which is not good.
How many of us will think positive by looking into other alternatives? So, ask yourself are your willing to think positively all the way? 2)Forward Thinking Apart from positive thinking, there is also another type of thinking that you must cultivate in order to be successful in your long distance relationship.
I call this Forward Thinking.
Forward Thinking is conditioning yourself to see the success of your future now.
Why this type of thinking important? It is important because, this type of thinking will condition your mind to accept only the outcome that you want.
For example, if you condition yourself to see yourself married to your partner in long distance relationship, any shortcoming during the long distance relationship will not have big impact because your subconscious mind already planted the success seed.
You will brave yourself through any shortcoming as you know that you will succeed.
3)Creative Thinking So what creative thinking got to do with long distance relationship? Let's put it this way, what exactly does long distance relationship can offer comparing to other relationship? Nothing, yes there are absolutely nothing if you see it from the fact and that is why many long distance relationship fail as there is nothing much you can do due to the physical distance.
That is why you need to think differently or more precise creatively when you are in a long distance relationship.
For example, have you ever think that you can actually sleep together every night in your long distance relationship or you can actually kiss your lover in your relationship? All of this can be done if you think creatively and differently.
You cannot deny the distance but you can always use the distance to your advantage if you think creatively.
The above are the examples of some of the way of thinking you must have or cultivate in order to put spice to your otherwise mundane long distance relationship.
How you think will determine how far you can go in your long distance relationship.