Marriage, no matter what country or culture you're in is one of the most sacred of institutions.
  It's actually quite a disheartening fact that most surveys indicate 87% of all marriages will not be successful.
  It's actually quite noble that you wish to halt any divorce plans.
  It's certainly not the easiest thing to do.
  Because it isn't easy, I'd like to try and aid you.
  I think I can because I've been in your shoes.
I know all the pains of being in an ending marriage.
Your marriage's approaching end feels completely horrible, it's painful to see it circling down the drain.
I was very desperate and was willing to do anything to stop my divorce and save my marriage.
I can relate to the pain and frustration you're probably going through right now.
  It's one of the worst feelings in the world to watch your marriage that you put so much time and effort into, spinning out of control and coming to an end.
  I wanted to do everything I possibly could to put a halt to the divorce I was facing, and to save my marriage.
Unfortunately, a desperate situation I thought call for desperate measures; and I went with what my emotions told me to do: Begging my husband for my marriage.
Now this is the last thing you should ever, ever consider doing.
Begging marks you as weak and pathetic.
Who wants such a spouse? Nobody.
Yet, I couldn't see this as my desperation had clouded my judgment.
You've gotten control of your emotions and you're willing to forget being desperate.
  I prevented a divorce and if you really want to, you can too.
  What happens from this moment on, will depend upon you and what you decide to do.
  If you truly can put aside any feelings of being desperate, which could cause you to say or do things that would ruin it, you can be successful.