Greetings love tribe! How has your summer moved along? Are you dating? Are you finally in a relationship? Are you creating delicious love connections that truly satisfy? Yes, that's Awesome! I celebrate your movement to create the love you want! For those of you thinking and responding...
No...
What's that about? Give yourself permission to Create a New Experience! Summer is a wonderful season and a great excuse to be spontaneous, flirt, get your groove back and get into the swing of showing up in the world for love.
With so many festivities going on in your community and warmer weather there's still time to capitalize on all the opportunities around you to...
SHOW UP, BE SEEN & START DATING.
Despite what you may think as a believer in the law of attraction, that you create your own destiny, love is never that simple.
You can create a vision board, set the qualities you want in a relationship and partner and open your heart for love to find it's not there.
You are discouraged to find yourself still single, hung up on an ex or in unsatisfying relationships.
Despite the fact that these are valuable practices, this is just one part of the process.
To have a new experience of dating, To create a different kind of relationship and To manifest deep committed love...
A love in which you are free to be you and become your best self while holding space for the other to do the same, requires you to embody a new way of being with someone.
Be Engaged in the Process to Embody a New Way of Being This means you have to be engaged in the co-creating of the love process.
When I say co-create, I mean you need to contribute to the truth of attraction and help sustain the love in your relationship.
This cannot be done in isolation.
It requires that you choose to commit to connect with other people -socialize AND go on dates- and not just to connect with any-body.
But, to connect with other people who are relationship minded and want to find love, fall in love and be in a relationship too.
Provided that's your heart's desire.
How do you know if you are ready to let love in? Those who are truly ready to let love in are being love connectors in the world now.
They aren't waiting until...
the stars line up perfectly, they feel more confident, lose weight or are financially more secure.
Go ahead, just fill in your excuse for why your not dating, not going out, and not going to singles events -even if you have to go alone- You get the point, right? We've all done it.
We inadvertently get in our own way of having the love we want.
Don't beat yourself up for letting your excuses stop you from Showing up, Being Seen and Dating.
Just make the decision today to stop hiding behind your excuses and whatever you're waiting for.
Hiding behind excuses and fears, Isolating and Waiting is not the love process and doesn't support you to embody a new way of being in love.
It guarantees you are left waiting and longing for love rather than falling in love and being empowered to co-create and sustain love.
It ensures you will still be Single in the Fall and likely through the holiday season too.
This isn't what you want, is it? No...
Good! AND It's doesn't have to be your experience.
Not on my watch at least, because I am committed and passionate about supporting you the have the love you want;) Here's My Coaching Challenge for you: 1) Identify the ways you have been Hiding and not Engaged in the Love Process.
2) Decide to Stop Hiding, Isolating and Waiting! Once you have awareness, the process of change starts with your decision backed by committed action.
Much love, Michelle Conboy, MA michelle@relationshipcafe.
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