Why You Can"t Make a Guy Love You
Making a guy love you is like is like trying to wear shoe that do not fit.
No matter what you do, say or wear you stand the chance of making a person become infatuated with what you put before him, rather than falling in love with who you are.
When it comes to love, the feeling should occur naturally.
If you have to manufacture the feeling or attempt to make some feel it, you are implying they don't feel that way towards you...
naturally.
Imagine, you see a guy and you feel that you have to be, no...
you need to be with him and or have his attention.
What many women will do is dress up the outside and put themselves on display, giving the object of your attention something to look at and even drool over.
Men are visual creatures, yes the guy will look and even be attracted to what he sees and will even fantasize about having you.
This is totally different from love.
Being attracted to and infatuated with a woman does not equate to loving her, honoring and respecting her.
Sex will not make a man love you, showing him your curves and having him look at the way you walk into and out of the room won't do it either.
While many women don't care about the honor and respect, every woman should have a standard and exception from the man in pursuit of her affection and attention.
Take not of the italicized words in the last sentence.
If he is not in pursuit, he in not interested.
If you get his attention and he notices you, only time will tell what his intentions are.
If you are impatient and you want to force things along, you will only prolong the inevitable and that's finding out he was only interested in the thrill.
Making a guy love you is not the attribute of love.
How would you feel, learning, the person you fell in love with was not the person you though he was, everything about him was false, his name, his occupation and so on.
Naturally you feel duped and even hurt.
When you attempt to make a guy love you, is it you he loves? Or the illusion you gave him? Does he love what you displayed (hips, thighs and big round eyes), what you did and he feels that he will get more of the same? Nothing tops the natural affection and the attraction that a man will have for a woman, don't manufacture it and try to make it happen, let it happen naturally and be patient.
No matter what you do, say or wear you stand the chance of making a person become infatuated with what you put before him, rather than falling in love with who you are.
When it comes to love, the feeling should occur naturally.
If you have to manufacture the feeling or attempt to make some feel it, you are implying they don't feel that way towards you...
naturally.
Imagine, you see a guy and you feel that you have to be, no...
you need to be with him and or have his attention.
What many women will do is dress up the outside and put themselves on display, giving the object of your attention something to look at and even drool over.
Men are visual creatures, yes the guy will look and even be attracted to what he sees and will even fantasize about having you.
This is totally different from love.
Being attracted to and infatuated with a woman does not equate to loving her, honoring and respecting her.
Sex will not make a man love you, showing him your curves and having him look at the way you walk into and out of the room won't do it either.
While many women don't care about the honor and respect, every woman should have a standard and exception from the man in pursuit of her affection and attention.
Take not of the italicized words in the last sentence.
If he is not in pursuit, he in not interested.
If you get his attention and he notices you, only time will tell what his intentions are.
If you are impatient and you want to force things along, you will only prolong the inevitable and that's finding out he was only interested in the thrill.
Making a guy love you is not the attribute of love.
How would you feel, learning, the person you fell in love with was not the person you though he was, everything about him was false, his name, his occupation and so on.
Naturally you feel duped and even hurt.
When you attempt to make a guy love you, is it you he loves? Or the illusion you gave him? Does he love what you displayed (hips, thighs and big round eyes), what you did and he feels that he will get more of the same? Nothing tops the natural affection and the attraction that a man will have for a woman, don't manufacture it and try to make it happen, let it happen naturally and be patient.
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