Whatever word you use, whether it is 'strategy', 'trick' or 'plan' to win back your ex boyfriend, you must remember that it is the intention behind your move that is more important than what the word actually connotes.
If your intention is to trap your ex into falling for a certain line of action that is more beneficial to you rather than to him, you are doing no good to yourself in the long run.
True and sincere love does not call for tricks, conspiracies or any manipulative approach.
If it is true that love begets love, it is also true that tricks beget tricks.
What most of us do not seem to realize is that our vibrations of love or conspiracy communicate themselves and act faster than the physical tricks howsoever clever we may try to be.
So, whatever approach you make to get back your ex, be sure it is for the benefit of both of you.
Your purpose is to win him back your ex and not to defeat him.
Moreover, a defeated person cannot become a true friend or a lover.
You have to act like a true and sincere lover.
Having said that here is a strategy, which is based on human psychology and works powerfully in all such matters of relationships.
You should note that: 1.
Your fight involves your nerves and intelligence.
It means that you should not become impatient for the results.
Just become silent and incommunicado.
Stop trying to communicate with him either through the phone, chat mails or SMSes Even if your love communicates itself, it may confuse your lover since he may find a clash between the vibrations of love that he receives in his heart and your actual behavior on the ground.
2.
As an extension of this approach, give him the impression that you are OK with his decision to get away.
Rather, you are happy in his happiness.
If he does not want to have contact with you, so be it.
You are only trying to help him to stay away from you.
What should you do in the meantime? You have neglected your health and figure since the day you started taking your ex for granted.
Moreover, there were professional obligations.
It is time you look into the mirror and see what you have done to your figure.
Go meet your friends and class mates.
Go to gym to improve your figure.
Make it like you looked when he fell in love with you.
Let your friends believe that you are happier now than when you were in love with him.
Some of your friends, who know your ex, may convey him this impression.
Rest assured, he is likely to be bamboozled by your behavior.
What he wants is that you cry, beg, coax and cajole him to get him back.
Your impression of being OK without him is likely to hurt his ego.
Become a mystery for him.
The more he thinks about you, the more inaccessible you appear to have become, the more he will feel attracted towards you.
So even if he wishes to contact you, remain inaccessible to him.
Avoid answering his calls and mails.
Ignore his overtures if any he makes for a rapprochement.
Distance and inaccessibility lend more charm to a person like distant pastures look greener and more attractive.
The more you keep a person waiting, the more impatient he becomes to meet you.
And when he does meet you, he is all ready to do your biding.
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