Why Do I Care If My Ex Still Loves Me?
So you've broken up with your ex and you find yourself wondering if your ex still loves you.
Well, the mere fact that you're thinking about this says a lot.
You might want to ask yourself why you care.
I mean, you've both broken up, you went one way and she/he went another.
End of story.
Right? Well, it's not so easy is it? You need to be truthful with yourself.
If you're wondering about his/her feelings toward you, then you probably still have some lingering feelings toward them.
It's ok, but you have to think about what you want out of it.
Do you want to simply know your ex loves you before you can carry on your merry way? Do you want to know your ex doesn't love you so you can start making yourself miserable wondering why? What is the goal in knowing? Don't be ashamed if you truly have feelings for your ex.
If your ex provided happiness and love in your life then you may want to a least give those remaining feelings a chance to connect again.
There's nothing wrong with that.
Some of the greatest relationships in the world had periods of uncertainty.
The fact that you both may need to learn how to work through the times when you both don't see eye-to-eye does not mean you don't love each other anymore.
Only relationship amateurs would think that way.
Remember, nobody is perfect.
People have flaws.
Waiting around for that perfect partner that never comes tends to cause a whole lot of loneliness.
If you had someone that made you happy that you care for and find you're wondering if they still care for you, take the next step and find out.
You only have your happiness at stake.
Well, the mere fact that you're thinking about this says a lot.
You might want to ask yourself why you care.
I mean, you've both broken up, you went one way and she/he went another.
End of story.
Right? Well, it's not so easy is it? You need to be truthful with yourself.
If you're wondering about his/her feelings toward you, then you probably still have some lingering feelings toward them.
It's ok, but you have to think about what you want out of it.
Do you want to simply know your ex loves you before you can carry on your merry way? Do you want to know your ex doesn't love you so you can start making yourself miserable wondering why? What is the goal in knowing? Don't be ashamed if you truly have feelings for your ex.
If your ex provided happiness and love in your life then you may want to a least give those remaining feelings a chance to connect again.
There's nothing wrong with that.
Some of the greatest relationships in the world had periods of uncertainty.
The fact that you both may need to learn how to work through the times when you both don't see eye-to-eye does not mean you don't love each other anymore.
Only relationship amateurs would think that way.
Remember, nobody is perfect.
People have flaws.
Waiting around for that perfect partner that never comes tends to cause a whole lot of loneliness.
If you had someone that made you happy that you care for and find you're wondering if they still care for you, take the next step and find out.
You only have your happiness at stake.
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