It is easy to say the words, but does he mean it? Is he regularly stressing the fact that you mean the world to him, yet you remain unsure? What is he really thinking? Thankfully, the following will show you three sure fire ways to read his heart.
Who is most important in the relationship? Men often love the comfort of someone they don't have to recap their lives to, someone who knows them intimately, or at the very least are familiar.
A willingness to be around someone is not a sign of love.
Men hate to be alone.
Are your problems addressed or do they take a back burner to the stresses of his day? How often are your needs discussed? What is he thinking when you are not around? Does he buy you flowers when he doesn't owe you an apology? When it's not Valentine's Day or your birthday? Does he often call in the middle of the day to see how you are doing, or is it simply a cursory query when you see him at night? How willing is he to plan activities that are necessarily his cup of tea but knows that it would make you happy? The surprises in a relationship keep things fresh, ask yourself when was the last time I came home to see him in an apron preparing my favorite meal.
Will he commit to you? Mens eyes will always be searching the room, taking in the scenery of others.
Do you get a real sense that this man will come when called? Is he willing to give up the "other fish in the see"? If you want to know to know how to tell if he really loves you ask yourself these questions, the answer is only a few moments away.