Sweet Things to Say to Your Boyfriend
If you are not the kind of person who can simply come out with something sweet to say to your boyfriend then it can often be a difficult thing to do or perhaps you are easily embarrassed or shy and know what you might want to say but can't readily do it? Luckily for you, I am here to help! If you are easily embarrassed or shy when it comes to thinking of sweet things to say to your boyfriend then think about this...
Perhaps he feels just the same way but maybe wants to hear you say those sweet things? Everyone says "I love you" and it's a beautiful thing to hear, however there are ways to make it even sweeter and personal by adding compliments so we will have a look at how to do that but before we do, let's look at compliments...
Compliments So, we have already said that one of the sweetest things you can say to your boyfriend is "I love you", however if you spend a little more time thinking about why you love him then it makes it more personal.
For instance, exactly what is it about him physically, mentally and spiritually that you love? What does he do for you that nobody else does? What is it about him that makes you want to spend so much time with him? Perhaps now you will see the difference between simply saying something sweet to your boyfriend and making that sweet thing actually mean something and count? Giving a compliment actually involves taking a little risk because you have to open yourself up in order to do it and that is what makes it count...
Let me ask you this...
Would you rather hear "I love you" or "I just wanted you to know that I love you so much because when I am with you I am reminded of how wonderfully confident you make me feel?" Notice that one is simply something sweet to say but the other includes something personal that they have done for you and explains that you truly appreciate it? Before we cover exactly how to do it I think we should cover when to do it! Picking Your Time Guys are easily embarrassed when it comes to love, flirting and sweet things...
it's no secret! Declaring your undying love to him while he is with his buddies or on the phone to them (or when he's on the phone to you in front of them) might seem funny but it wont help you in the long run! Face it, men are fragile little creatures at heart and as well as making him the laughing stock of his buddies it has also been known to cause arguments.
How to do it? So, you need a starting point right? Grab a pen and paper or open up a word processor and let's get started...
Take just 60 seconds and write down at least 3 things he has done for you that you consider helpful, sweet, kind etc...
Handy tip! Make sure that you write them by imagining you are talking to him and starting them "you" instead of "he.
" The next thing to do is simply to look at each one and think about it for a little while (close your eyes if it helps) and make a note of how it made you feel, what it meant to you inside and write it down.
Do that for all 3.
Let's look at an example: You...
"You know, I loved the way you fixed my puncture in the pouring rain on our first date, it made me feel really cared for and I appreciate it more than you'll ever know...
" See how easy it is? Of course you can mix and match and come up with dozens, as long as it "feels right" and you are honest with it.
Say some sweet things to your boyfriend today and make his day! Anabelle Crimson
Perhaps he feels just the same way but maybe wants to hear you say those sweet things? Everyone says "I love you" and it's a beautiful thing to hear, however there are ways to make it even sweeter and personal by adding compliments so we will have a look at how to do that but before we do, let's look at compliments...
Compliments So, we have already said that one of the sweetest things you can say to your boyfriend is "I love you", however if you spend a little more time thinking about why you love him then it makes it more personal.
For instance, exactly what is it about him physically, mentally and spiritually that you love? What does he do for you that nobody else does? What is it about him that makes you want to spend so much time with him? Perhaps now you will see the difference between simply saying something sweet to your boyfriend and making that sweet thing actually mean something and count? Giving a compliment actually involves taking a little risk because you have to open yourself up in order to do it and that is what makes it count...
Let me ask you this...
Would you rather hear "I love you" or "I just wanted you to know that I love you so much because when I am with you I am reminded of how wonderfully confident you make me feel?" Notice that one is simply something sweet to say but the other includes something personal that they have done for you and explains that you truly appreciate it? Before we cover exactly how to do it I think we should cover when to do it! Picking Your Time Guys are easily embarrassed when it comes to love, flirting and sweet things...
it's no secret! Declaring your undying love to him while he is with his buddies or on the phone to them (or when he's on the phone to you in front of them) might seem funny but it wont help you in the long run! Face it, men are fragile little creatures at heart and as well as making him the laughing stock of his buddies it has also been known to cause arguments.
How to do it? So, you need a starting point right? Grab a pen and paper or open up a word processor and let's get started...
Take just 60 seconds and write down at least 3 things he has done for you that you consider helpful, sweet, kind etc...
Handy tip! Make sure that you write them by imagining you are talking to him and starting them "you" instead of "he.
" The next thing to do is simply to look at each one and think about it for a little while (close your eyes if it helps) and make a note of how it made you feel, what it meant to you inside and write it down.
Do that for all 3.
Let's look at an example: You...
- Fixed my puncture in the dark and the pouring rain on our first date
- Care for my son as though he were your own
- Send me love letters when we are apart
- Feel really cared for
- Appreciate the way you feel for me
- Miss you when we are apart
- Really glad I met you
- So much
- More than you'll ever know
- More than you realise
"You know, I loved the way you fixed my puncture in the pouring rain on our first date, it made me feel really cared for and I appreciate it more than you'll ever know...
" See how easy it is? Of course you can mix and match and come up with dozens, as long as it "feels right" and you are honest with it.
Say some sweet things to your boyfriend today and make his day! Anabelle Crimson
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