Where to Go

• Figure out what type of friend you are looking for. This will help you choose where you want to go to meet new friends, and to make sure that you are targeting the right type of audience for your own personality. If you are looking for a person to go out to the latest clubs and bars with, then you should probably go to some place upbeat, such as a dance workout class, browsing stores at the mall or even going to a bar on your own. Don't be afraid to strike up a conversation with someone standing beside you.
  If you are looking for a more laid-back friend, sign up for a class. This will ensure that if you are both in a class that interests you, you already have something in common. Also, it gives you the opportunity to meet a lot of new people at once. Invite the group to your place for a game or wine night. Make sure that while everyone is there you get a chance to mingle with the different guests to make them feel welcome. Chances are they are looking for new friends also.
  VibesConnect.com is a website similar to E-Harmony or Match.Com, but is targeted to help you make new friends. You can always go on Facebook or MySpace and reconnect with old friends, or friends of friends. Always remember to be safe and smart when talking online.
  Most cities have a website that lists events, so checking out a band, festival or show will help you connect with new people in your area.
  Some other ways to meet new people are join a club, volunteer, talk to someone new at work, travel, take your dog to the park and strike up a conversation with someone at the store. There are people everywhere we go, it's just a matter or talking to someone enough to make that connection.
  Making new friends is a lot like dating. You want to make sure that you are compatible with the new person that you bring into your life. The two of you should have some common interests and enjoy each other's company. You are choosing this person to step into your life, so don't settle on the first stranger that smiles back.