A true friend is a treasure forever.
It's a treasure that's hard to let go especially when your relationship is so deep and is hard to break.
But, sometimes, friendship ends with some reasons difficult to explain.
There are times when good relationship starts to meet its ending, and this is where you've to prepare to face the consequences and accept the reality in life.
As, the saying goes, "Everything has its beginning and ending".
Nothing is permanent in this world, you have to accept reality that all things are only transients and must go.
It's a difficult decision to end your friendship, and this needs your thorough personal assessment how to cope such a painful break-up in a manner that both of you will not be hurt once you parted ways.
You've decided to end the friendship, and this is really very difficult to just end, especially if your relationship already lasted for a very long time.
But if you're determined to do it, follow your conscience and decide base on truth.
Suggested ways to cope in ending your friendship • Say it in a mild manner.
It would be better to send him or her some message that would explain why you should part ways.
Give the reason why such a long friendship should end with the hope that no one would be hurt.
• Talk one on one.
The best you can do is personally confront him or her, the reason of your break-up.
Talk straight eye to eye and observe what she or he feels what you'll say.
By explaining your side directly, would be much better because you can get the right response immediately.
By the time you'll part, everything had been cleared and no more remorse later would come out.
• Close any contact.
After you've decided to part ways, never look back to your past experiences with her or him, when you're still close friend.
Completely erase any sign, souvenirs, pictures for both of you and all that relates your closeness together before.
• Find some fun work.
Let yourself busy working for some activities that makes you happy and enjoy.
This way, you'll gradually forget your past bad experiences with your friendship.
• Accept that you've been hurt.
Although you suffered a great depression due to closing of good friendship, you've to accept it openly and try yourself to move on to the next chapter of your life.
• Find time with old friends.
This is the right time to go back at your old friends to reconnect again, because you're busy concentrating to your new friends that later ends, you forgot to find time with them.
Now is the time to explain to them why you've been out of reach for so long.
They'll understand your explanation, because a true friend feels what a friend feels.
It's hard to lose a friend once you've been too close and intimate, but when times theirs is a disagreement that both of you needs to part, you've to be prepared to face the consequences and break the shackles with open arms so that you'll not both suffer badly.
Close friendship happily.