Are you losing weight stressing over the fact that you stand no chance in getting your Ex back after the dreadful breakup? And the fact that your Ex isn't willing to reply to your calls, also doesn't help much, so what is your plan? The fact is that this task is not that difficult as most people perceive it to be, so give a little time for the both of you to cool down and apply the all-effective, 'I don't care' rule! Although, you never felt more unhappy and depressed than now, but you stand no chance to get your Ex back if your true feelings are known by your Ex partner.
If you want to succeed in getting your Ex back, you'll have to prove that you're happier living a single life without your Ex.
As soon as your Ex identifies that you've stopped banging on their flat door or have stopped making crazy midnight phone calls, some bells will start ringing in their mind! Getting your Ex back can be easier than you think, but you'll have to catch your Ex off-guard! After the breakup, your Ex was fuming with rage and even felt hatred for you, but the all-powerful 'I don't care' rule will change the course of things, as now your Ex will be feeling surprise and curiosity! Not even a day will pass without any calls from you, and your Ex will be trying to learn what hit you! The bottom-line is that you'll only penetrate if you wound your Ex's ego, by letting your actions or lack of actions tell your Ex that you no longer care! The biggest obstacle in carrying out the 'I don't care' rule perfectly is, YOU! Make sure you don't listen to the guy who lives in your head, as following his advice has got you where you are! If you go after your desire to communicate with your Ex, the whole plan will come down crashing, and your hopes of getting your Ex back will be annihilated.
A little insight into human nature will also explain why you need to keep your distance from your Ex partner.
Humans run after objects which are hard to get even if their worthless, and take for granted the precious things they already possess.
By showing to your Ex partner that you no longer care about the breakup, you will only be fueling your Ex's desire to know what went wrong with you and your Ex would be lured into getting back to you.
If you and your Ex bounce up accidentally, try to keep the meeting short and cold, while if your calls you to arrange a meeting, simply tell them you're too busy cutting your lawn grass, or anything better that comes to your mind! The sudden change in your behavior will be enough to make your Ex wreak havoc on their nerves and they will not rest until they get back to you.
Now you know getting your Ex back isn't the hardest thing in the world, so get into action!