Have you seen a few signs lately that would make you think that your ex wants the two of you to have a second chance? If your ex-husband or ex-wife is putting out signals that they want the two of you to work things out, what should you do? Well, that depends upon what you want.
Do you want to give it another try or are you tired of trying? Sometimes a little time apart is all that two people need to see what they really want is to be together.
There are many reasons that people split up.
There may be problems communicating and keeping in touch with each other's feelings.
One thing that is confusing is the relationship that has been a series of break-ups and reconciliations.
When you and your ex have been living apart and both of you are miserable maybe it is time to get back together.
The main reason a relationship fails is because the people in the relationship failed to understand the other's needs.
There are relationships that would be better off not being renewed.
But in this instance it would be because of abuse or serious problems that cannot be worked out.
If your relationship has failed due to the fact that you and your ex have let hurt feelings get in the way, there are options.
The easiest thing in the world is to forget that the other person has feelings.
Saying hurtful things that cannot be taken back is one of the most common occurrences when two people have disagreements.
Living for the future and not dwelling on the past is one decision that will have to be made in order to reconcile.
If there are children involved getting back together for this reason is not a good idea.
Unless the reconciliation is dependent upon what the two of you have worked out using the children as an excuse may backfire.
If there are fights and arguments constantly this cannot be good for them to see.
However, if you are beginning to see that your ex wants to try again and you are willing it is worth the effort.
Just do not make the mistake of doing something that you do not want to do because you think it is the right thing to do.
Your ex may call and send you flowers and ask you to go out with them to dinner or elsewhere.
The question you have to ask yourself is, "Do I want to do this?" If you are still having feelings for your ex, it is easy to want to get back together hoping things will be different this time.
However, it is extremely important not to make the same mistakes that were made in the past.
If this happens you will end up right back in the same predicament you are in now.
When making the decision of whether or not to reconcile, do not rush.
You have time to think about it and discuss the relationship with your ex.
Make sure you are making the right decision.