Sexual Abuse or Assault (Rape)-Prevention Sexual abuse and assault is never the victim's fault. But there are some things you can do that may help reduce your risk.

• When you go to a party, go with a group of friends. Arrive together, watch out for each other, and leave together.
• Do not leave your beverage unattended or accept a drink from an open container.
• Be aware of your surroundings at all times.
• Do not allow yourself to be alone with someone you do not know or trust. Do not get a ride from someone you do not know.
• Think about how intimate you want to be in a relationship, and clearly state your limits.

Reduce the chance of your child being sexually abused or assaulted:

• Teach your children that it is against the "rules" for adults to act in a sexual way with children. Use examples.
• Teach your children that it is okay to say no and that it is okay to leave the situation if they are uncomfortable.
• Teach your children that their bodies are their own and that it is okay if they do not want a hug or other contact that might make them uncomfortable.
• Speak to your children about using the proper names for their body parts. Informed children are better able to talk to you about someone acting in a sexual way with them.

Organizations such as Planned Parenthood can help you learn more about reducing your chances of being a victim. Contact Planned Parenthood toll-free at 1-800-230-PLAN (1-800-230-7526) or online at www.plannedparenthood.org.

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