Everything seems pretty blank when a relationship you cherished for so long falls to pieces.
Most couples don't actually end on a mutual basis, so for one side of the relationship, it will be an extremely hard process.
The chances are you will be repeating the same questions over and over in your head, until you mind eventually gives up and you can't think any more.
The question you keep asking is; how did you let this happen? So many people beat themselves up when a relationship ends.
The thing is with relationships is that you can't change people, so you have to be yourself and what happens, happens! The good thing is though; there are a few things you can do which could show you that getting an ex back is possible.
The best thing you can do for yourself is avoid free and useless information.
This information will have been produced by a writer that works on a keyword basis to get high on search engine results.
Find someone with a proven system and read something that is based on facts instead.
A lot of proven systems are so good because the creators have been in exactly the same position as you are now! If someone has gone through the same process that you are about to embark on, then I'd class them as extremely qualified.
You know exactly how it feels to be dumped; do you think someone that hasn't been dumped can truly understand what you are going through?