I Can"t Stop Thinking About My Ex - Be Honest With Yourself
Figuring out if you want your ex back lies depends if you do want him back or not.
But there are a lot of factors that you have to consider before making that final decision.
Has it been that long like a couple of months or so, and you do remember why you broke up right? Whatever the reason maybe, you have to make a personal decision if you want to go through the heartache again if you do decide to get back together.
Why do you want him back? If it because of superficial reasons like he is so hot, he is rich and you don't want to be alone, forget it because it's not worth the effort.
He is an entirely different being and accepting them for who they are is what is ideal in any relationship.
If they dumped you, do you remember why that happened? Can you change for the better? If you can't reconcile your differences, and you can't seem to understand how he ticks, don't even bother.
You have to learn to accept your individual differences for your commitment to work.
When you broke up, hurtful things were said and no one backed down to listen.
This is too common a situation but thinking back now you almost suddenly thought that you are perfect for each other.
I would advise you to wait and reassess the lost relationship for obvious reasons.
You need to be patient, you need to have trust and you need to have faith in one another.
Always keep the communication open and make sure that you will always be there for him.
After the breakup, you think of him often and are reminiscing all the good and bad times you had together.
You keep on asking yourself how come it became like this, what if I did this, what If I did that.
Maybe you should have done this or maybe you should have done that.
The only thing you can do right now, instead of welcoming that feeling of regret is, to keep yourself busy.
If you are still in love with him and he loves you back, let time take its course and believe in a little bit of magic.
If you accidentally bump into each other and the magic is still there, you are in luck, you know what to do next.
But there are a lot of factors that you have to consider before making that final decision.
Has it been that long like a couple of months or so, and you do remember why you broke up right? Whatever the reason maybe, you have to make a personal decision if you want to go through the heartache again if you do decide to get back together.
Why do you want him back? If it because of superficial reasons like he is so hot, he is rich and you don't want to be alone, forget it because it's not worth the effort.
He is an entirely different being and accepting them for who they are is what is ideal in any relationship.
If they dumped you, do you remember why that happened? Can you change for the better? If you can't reconcile your differences, and you can't seem to understand how he ticks, don't even bother.
You have to learn to accept your individual differences for your commitment to work.
When you broke up, hurtful things were said and no one backed down to listen.
This is too common a situation but thinking back now you almost suddenly thought that you are perfect for each other.
I would advise you to wait and reassess the lost relationship for obvious reasons.
You need to be patient, you need to have trust and you need to have faith in one another.
Always keep the communication open and make sure that you will always be there for him.
After the breakup, you think of him often and are reminiscing all the good and bad times you had together.
You keep on asking yourself how come it became like this, what if I did this, what If I did that.
Maybe you should have done this or maybe you should have done that.
The only thing you can do right now, instead of welcoming that feeling of regret is, to keep yourself busy.
If you are still in love with him and he loves you back, let time take its course and believe in a little bit of magic.
If you accidentally bump into each other and the magic is still there, you are in luck, you know what to do next.
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