Most of us have been in a relationship that is less than perfect, but you still love your partner.
You want the relationship to work, but your partner is DONE! You come home one day, your bags are packed and your partner is telling you to "GET OUT".
You try frantically to talk your way out of it, but your partner doesn't want to talk about it or try to work it out.
All your hopes and dreams of a happy life and relationship are vanishing right before your eyes.
There is a flood of overwhelming panic and anxiety that comes over you.
You want to scream and cry.
You're lost and confused.
You ask yourself "what just happened, is this a dream"? Sadly, it is not a dream.
Your relationship is over.
You are alone and depressed.
You're probably going over the whole chain of evens in your head.
Asking the usual questions, how did this happen, is it really over, and is there any hope of getting her back? Should I text her or call her, or go drink myself through the pain? Your friends take you out for a few drinks to get your mind off it.
You drink a little too much, and all you can think of is her.
Even though you think there is no hope, there is.
You probably want to call her.
Don't do it, it could ruin your chances of getting her back.
There are better ways of getting to her.
Ways that will give you a lot better chance at getting her back.
Don't tell her you will change for good this time.
This will only push her away.
She will see right through you.
And in reality, you probably won't change either.
Living your life for another person is no way to live anyway.
To properly save your relationship, you need to make sure you take steps that count, especially during the first little while.
You need to be educated on the matter.
Find out what to do that will work.
You'll be glad you did.