Guys, if you have recently broken up with someone you care about I'm willing to bet the thought of "how to get my ex girlfriend back" keeps whirling around inside your head.
I know when I went through my own breakup I was a mess with jumbled emotions of pain, anguish, desperation, sadness and anger all coursing through my mind.
However, one thought I couldn't get rid of was how to get her back.
After taking a moment to gather my thoughts I decided that she was worth fighting for and immediately began researching online how to get my ex back.
What I discovered is that there are hundreds of blogs, forums, websites and products dedicated to answering that painful relationship question.
As you would expect, some of what I discovered actually worked and helped me get my ex back.
But some of the advice and recommended relationship repair strategies were just plain pathetic and absolutely worthless.
Here are a few of the simple things I learned along the way of getting my ex girlfriend back and I think they can help you at getting your girl back also.
The time during your breakup should not be wasted on playing games or trying to flex your might appearing as if you are in control and could care less about your ex.
This does nothing but create a false sense of security which quickly evaporates as time goes on and you find yourself missing your ex more and more.
Don't try and make your ex jealous by pretending to date someone else.
All this does is make you look like more of a loser when what you actually need to be showing your ex is that you can have a good time without her with other people such as your family and friends.
Dating other women during the breakup can actually cause more permanent damage which could ruin any chance you have of rekindling your romance.
True, your ex could get so jealous that the thought of you being with someone else makes them sick causing them to want you back or it could also paint the picture that you simply didn't care for her then or now and probably never will.
You have no way of knowing how this situation will play out so why take the chance of dating other women if you are serious about getting your ex girlfriend back into your life.
Avoid being mean or vicious towards your ex.
Sure, you're angry and hurt after all, it's only human nature.
I know I was when my ex broke up with me.
But the ability to suppress those feelings and focus on what truly matters - getting her back, will play a large part in repairing any damage that occurred in your relationship with her.
One thing I did was ask myself the question of "How did I act around her and with her".
I quickly found out that I wasn't always talking her feelings into consideration and this proved to be one of the reasons why we initially broke up.
That was just one of the choke points I identified in my quest to get my ex girlfriend back.
If you would like to know all of the things I did in order to salvage my relationship then keep reading.