"How to get her back", now that's a question I'm sure nearly every man has asked himself at one time or another.
I know I have and it was during a time when my girlfriend decided she no longer wanted to spend time with me and preferred the company of others.
To say I was devastated would be an understatement and honestly all I cared about was how to get my ex girlfriend back.
Fortunately, I was able to achieve that goal but it wasn't easy.
I spent several weeks learning everything I could about relationships and how to save them to include detailed information on how to mend a broken relationship.
Let's be honest, trying to get an ex girlfriend back is not an easy task but it can be accomplished with the right steps.
Here are a just a few simple things I learned and implemented in order to get the love of my life back into my arms.
First and foremost you absolutely cannot chase after her with the intent of begging her to come back.
It's pathetic, embarrassing and it doesn't work, trust me, I know all too well the repercussions from chasing after an ex.
What your ex actually needs during this emotional time is some space in order for her to also heal from the trauma of the breakup.
During this cooling off period you want to take advantage of the free time away from her and focus on what you could change in order to further enhance your relationship with your girlfriend should you both decide to get back together.
Really take some time to analyze your relationship and see if you can pinpoint anything you might have done wrong.
Although some guys find out from their ex what they did wrong during the breakup this isn't always the case so put some effort into critiquing yourself.
Once you have identified those issues or flaws that hindered your relationship you can begin to work on them in order to correct those relationship ending issues.
Yes, I'm telling you to stop doing stuff that drives her away and begin doing things that will drive her towards you or cause her to become re-attracted to you.
Does it sound hard..
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well my friend that's because it is but if you want her back as much as I wanted my ex girlfriend back then you will have to work at it.
After fixing those issues you can then begin to make casual contact with your ex.
You want to slowly build up to more frequent contacts so that it appears natural and in some cases spontaneous or out of the blue.
No stalking here as you will only drive her further away.
Eventually she will notice how much fun you're having and remember just how much fun the two of you had when you were together as a couple.
Once you've re-established contact it suddenly becomes a play it by ear event.
You will need to listen to her, focus on her, pay attention to her and most importantly look for any signs or signals that she still loves and cares for you.
Let your ex girlfriend discover for herself that you have cleaned up your act and fixed the problems that previously plagued your relationship.
I wish I could tell you that was all there is to winning back your ex but the truth is there is still so much more to share.
In fact, these are just a few of the steps I used to bring my ex girlfriend back.
If you would like to know all of the things I did in order to salvage my relationship then keep reading.