Move that But!
WHAT DID I LEARN TODAY - 1 I am fortunate to be with 4 very special women all unique in their own way, whom to some degree want to change there lives.
Want better things for themselves and for those around them.
What's stopping them...
a big fat "BUT" is in the way, a "BUT" so profoundly debilitating that these very special women can't see past it...
well not today they can't.
Today I learned that - BUT'S can stop anyone's ability to gain happiness, health, wealth and success.
So often I hear the common "BUT" complaints: oI could have been successful but I had kids, choose the wrong career...
oI want to be something different but life wouldn't let me oI use to do this but I hated the boss and I don't like doing it anymore oI don't know what I want, but I know I wouldn't be able to do it anyway What a lot of harm three little letters can do.
The thing about these three little letters is that it will stay with you for your entire life believing that it is correct...
believing that the "BUT" is always right.
"BUT'S" will stop all progress and things positive from coming into your life.
For example...
if you got a group of people together and got them to organize a birthday using "Yes, But...
" at the beginning of the sentence you will probably find that the exercise becomes very frustrating because everyone is putting up blocks, barriers, excuses.
TODAY I want you to learn that this is not the case, BUT'S are not your reality should you so choose.
A very simple and easy solution that will change our life, for life should you choose to implement it in your life each and everyday throughout your day will start to open endless possibilities.
TODAY, instead of BUT replace it with "AND".
Yes! Just another three letters, replace B-U-T with A-N-D...
as an example let's look at those statements above and see if we can change them about to not be so negative.
oI could have been successful and I have decided today I will be.
oI want to be something different and that's exactly what I plan to happen.
oI use to do this and I learned a lot from it to help me move on.
oI don't know what I want, and that's great because the world is my oyster.
What did I learn today?I learned that "BUT'S" are destructive and "AND'S" are constructive.
Live your life - be an "AND" person.
Want better things for themselves and for those around them.
What's stopping them...
a big fat "BUT" is in the way, a "BUT" so profoundly debilitating that these very special women can't see past it...
well not today they can't.
Today I learned that - BUT'S can stop anyone's ability to gain happiness, health, wealth and success.
So often I hear the common "BUT" complaints: oI could have been successful but I had kids, choose the wrong career...
oI want to be something different but life wouldn't let me oI use to do this but I hated the boss and I don't like doing it anymore oI don't know what I want, but I know I wouldn't be able to do it anyway What a lot of harm three little letters can do.
The thing about these three little letters is that it will stay with you for your entire life believing that it is correct...
believing that the "BUT" is always right.
"BUT'S" will stop all progress and things positive from coming into your life.
For example...
if you got a group of people together and got them to organize a birthday using "Yes, But...
" at the beginning of the sentence you will probably find that the exercise becomes very frustrating because everyone is putting up blocks, barriers, excuses.
TODAY I want you to learn that this is not the case, BUT'S are not your reality should you so choose.
A very simple and easy solution that will change our life, for life should you choose to implement it in your life each and everyday throughout your day will start to open endless possibilities.
TODAY, instead of BUT replace it with "AND".
Yes! Just another three letters, replace B-U-T with A-N-D...
as an example let's look at those statements above and see if we can change them about to not be so negative.
oI could have been successful and I have decided today I will be.
oI want to be something different and that's exactly what I plan to happen.
oI use to do this and I learned a lot from it to help me move on.
oI don't know what I want, and that's great because the world is my oyster.
What did I learn today?I learned that "BUT'S" are destructive and "AND'S" are constructive.
Live your life - be an "AND" person.
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